Don’t go easy on me

fau1t1n0urstars:

pleasurewhore:

When I don’t do the thing I say I will, when I sass at the wrong time, or when I do something only halfheartedly, please don’t go easy on me.

It’s easy to punish me when disobedience is blatant. When I break a rule knowingly and willingly, when I push too hard, or act petulantly, the path is clear. But what about when the waters are muddied? What about the grey area? What about the times when I ‘bend’ the rules, hiding behind pedantry and the letter of the law?

Those times are an opportunity to show me that you’re watching. They are a chance to create stability. To build a structure around me that will support me when I feel too weak to support myself.

There is no kindness in ‘letting it slide’, in a ‘first warning’, or a three strike policy. Submissives thrive on structure, on consistency, and on knowing what to expect. There is love to be found in the bondage of rules, and affection echoes every time you make it clear that the rules do not bend, I do.

Importance of Rules!

Don’t go easy!

Updated Library For Kinksters

dominantlife:

I completed some major changes to the Library For Kinksters. Here is the update…

Aftercare

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Long Distance Relationships

Mental Health

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Self Improvement

Sex

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